The Writing Life

Weather & Writing

(Forgive me if you’ve already received this post by email. It’s not published on my blog – for mysterious cyberspace reasons that I don’t understand – so I’m reposting).   I was going to rewrite and then post the entry below about the weather turning chilly but suddenly L.A. has gone from autumn to a…

Caregiver 101

I’m getting so familiar with various emergency rooms that a staff member at St. John’s  asks me where tube station 22 is. When I say I don’t work here she says, “You look like you know what you’re doing. And you’re writing.” Since we arrived rather suddenly (R’s doctor admitting him for more tests and IV…

Clutter & Chaos Continued

There’s eleven years of my cabin stuff – furniture, dishes, books, towels, pots, paintings and boxes of well, stuff  – sitting in my new garage In Lake Arrowhead waiting for floors to dry and the painter to finish. (Normally I’m better packed than this but the floor refinishing was a last minute decision.)  At the same…

A Way Out Of Chaos

Yesterday on NPR I heard something that might just change my chaotic life – and maybe yours too.  It was about a system called mise-en-place used in restaurant kitchens. (A variation of my German grandmother’s mantra, “A place for everything and everything in its place.”) Here’s an excerpt: The system that makes kitchens go is called mise-en-place, or,…

Persistance

There was an excellent essay by Stephen Marche for writers  last weekend in the NYT Review section, “Failure is our Muse”.  (It’s another version of what my father told me years ago when I took off for New York to become an actress. He said I was so stubborn and stupid about the competition that…

What’s in a Name

This is the crazy cat who lives in the attic. (Actually my office on the top floor.) She’s seventeen years old and I inherited her from a daughter and granddaughter who named her Thatcher. When my brother and sister-in-law were here in April they started calling her Margaret, which seemed a much nicer, softer name.…

Movie Cancer

I heard a review of “The Fault in Our Stars” on NPR the other day and the guy said the teenagers had “movie cancer” –  they didn’t get gaunt, their skin looked terrific etc. The thing about movie cancer that I find most irritating and untrue is that the person who has cancer always dies…